Tuesday, June 19, 2012

CHANGES IN LIFE................

                                             
Just back from the get together .............thinking  about the early days .With time people's way of thinking also changes.;Feeling very nostalgic..........before getting merried whenever my parents used to tell me about an invitation I simply used to deny .I never liked to join any gatherings ,because i used to  get bore.I was happy with my work schedule in my student life ....and later with my my job.I never liked to go somewhere where there  are lots of people looking at me and the place where I can't be like how I am.
    Now  ,at present situation when i have to quit my job for my daughter...I have to stay back at home....no relatives, no friends ....no duties other than family  I really get bore.Now I want to mix with people ,Iwant to make friends,Iwant to get back to my teaching proffession .........but all seems running away from me .Now I realise why we should always be in touch with our relatives....our friends .....its only because some time they become our medicine for our lonely life. Mixing with people knowing them sometimes helps us to solve our  problem.
         I realised that the thought came to my mind after I became mother. Before that I never had such strong feeling to mix up.
          With parenting lots of changes comes . As you go on teaching your child you too have lots of things to learn from your kids. Your patience  and love also grows with your child. You learn to cope with worst situation by handling them.My daughter is now 4yrs. old and now I realize those changes in me .                                                                                                                          When I joined school I used to see the tensed parents living there child for the first time in school and think why on earth they are so worried.Am I going to beat there child?But believe me friends when that time came to me I was shaking.......looking at my daughter shouting and crying.I couldn't move from the school gate  and after 2hrs I came home with my daughter.That experience made me think many things.
          It made me apolozise to those parents whom I always used to avoid because of their worries for their child.It's really true that unless you have one child you miss out many emotions in this world and you never understand others feelings.
         I am blessed to have one .Thanks to the almighty to give me an oppotunity to go through all such emotions and understand other .Now I think it would be more easier for me to handle other parents when I will start again with my teaching proffession.

Sunday, April 22, 2012

A Composition on this Bengali New Year by Ms. Panchali kar

   
১৪১৯-এর অঙ্গীকার


নতুন প্রভাতেরে আজ করি আহ্বান,
বিগতকে বিদায়, নতুনের হোক জয়গান।

‘১৪১৯’এর আজ শুভ আগমন,
সানন্দে তাঁরে, করি গো বরণ।

মুছে যাক সব,হীন দীনতা,
উজ্জ্বল ঊষা আনে আনন্দ বারতা।

দৃঢ় চিত্তে মোরা, করি অঙ্গীকার,
ব্যাথিতের সাথে যেন থাকি অনিবার।

ধরণীতে আনব মোরা স্নেহের পরশ,
মায়ার বাঁধনে‘করব জীবন সরস।

বিভেদ ভুলে মোরা করবো বিজয়
অমৃতের পুত্র সবাই, হবে জয় নিশ্চয়।

               -পাঞ্চালী কর। ১৫।০৪।২০১২

Friday, March 30, 2012


                         The following poem was composed by one of my aunt (Mrs. Panchali kar) when she first met my daughter "Shreya" a few days ago. My daughter is three and half years old now and by relation, she becomes grandmother to my daughter. The poem was written in Bengali language which is her mother tongue. The composition is quite rhythmic and carries true  love, affection and blessings that we usually find in our life.
                           I shall try to translate the composition in English in future for better understanding of my readers.

'শ্রেয়া' কে-

ছোট্ট মেয়ে 'শ্রেয়া' যে বাবার আদরিণী,
মায়ের কাছে সে যে ভুবন মোহিণী।
ঘ্যান-ঘ্যান প্যান-প্যান করে নাকো সে,
আপন মনে সারাদিন খেলে বেড়ায় যে ।
যদিও তার নেই কোন আব্দার বায়না, 
দুধভাত খেতে সে যে মোটেই চায় না।
খেলার পুতুল খেলনা-বাটি ছুঁড়ে ফেলে সে,
মোবাইল বন্দুককে তার সাথী করেছে।
দুচোখের চাউনিতে দুষ্টুমী মাখা,
ছোট্ট মাথাটি তার বুদ্ধিতে ঠাসা।
খেলাধূলা পড়াশুনা সবেতেই আছে,
মায়ের মমতা তাকে ঘিরে রেখেছে।
হবে সে একদিন বিদুষিনী নারী।
রইল তার সাথে আশীর্বাদ আমারি

                                                                                          ---মামিদিদা
                                                     (পাঞ্চালী কর)  ১৪।০২।২০১২